Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, and there is no better time to take some extra effort into spicing up your love life; therefore, this is the time to start planning just how you can treat and pleasure the man in your life. With this in mind, here we take a look at ten gift suggestions that will not fail to heat up the bedroom when Valentine’s Day rolls around on the fourteenth of February:
1. Flight By Fleshlight
What You Get:
This item ranks as the highest rated textured masturbator; it’s aerodynamic, and has a textured inner of a “real feel” vagina. Flight By Fleshlight is transparent, with a non-anatomically correct opening, which has an intense suction function – which can be controlled by the end cap. Fleshlight designs are some of the highest rated male sex toys; they’re designed with function in mind, which is a treat for newcomers and old hands alike.
Flight by Fleshlight, whether used with a partner, or for solo play, will certainly heighten your lover’s sensitivity and is capable of providing an veritable overload of pleasure!
Key Features:
- Flight By Fleshlight male masturbator
- Real-feel sleeve, which covers the entire penis
- Twist-cap suction control
- Easy-grip
- Easy-clean
- Sample-sized water-based lube
- Body-safe
- Waterproof? Submersible
“A view of the action: Being able to see what’s happening inside makes the experience more intimate and shared. Plus, instead of just blindly providing motion, your partner is able to actually “work” the internal textures and respond to what causes the best reactions from you. And then there’s getting to see the “fireworks” at the end, which is completely obscured and left out of any experience with a regular non-see-through Fleshlight.”(http://www.inbedmagazine.com)
“Using the Flight is much like any other Fleshlight. It’s best to warm it up before use, and if you are planning on using any of the accessories like the shower mountyou will need to purchase the Flight Adapter as the back end of the device is a bit different than regular Fleshlights.”
(http://www.marketofpleasure.com)
Where to buy?
Flight by Fleshlight can be bought from Bondara and LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
2. Tracey Cox Beginners Penis Pump
What You Get:
A transparent, hand-pump cylinder with a quick release valve, which is said to improve erections up to thirty per cent, making them firmer for longer. It’s compatible with the Tracey Cox app, so you can monitor stamina. This is easy to use and easy to clean; the Tracey Cox Transparent penis pump is ideal for those new to penile pumping. Comes with step-by-step instructions and downloadable app so your lover can easily track their progress. This penis pump will ensure stronger erections and orgasms with minimal fuss, as it is easy to use and assemble.
Key Features:
- Penis-pump for penile workouts
- Cylinder and gauge
- Hand-held Pump
- Quick-release valve
- Step-by-step guide
- Body-safe
- Waterproof? Submersible
“The pump […] everything I expected and more, the sleeve is very soft and stretchy and I imagine would fit most men, while the pump delivers a decent amount of pressure (i.e., enough to work without doing damage!). As far as the cylinder is concerned, I was expecting something thin and fragile, but it turns out to be surprisingly sturdy, and also very big!
As soon as I started pumping, he quickly started growing. After a few pumps, my penis was doing his best to fill the cylinder, his head turning purple and veins bulging along his length, the short-term improvements seem incredible to me.
The pump does take a bit of getting used to, particularly in making sure you get a good seal at the bottom. I’ve been using this for a week and can’t say that I’ve seen any long-term improvements. It’s difficult to tell as the scale on the pump is hard to read as it depends on what angle you are looking at it from.
Overall, I think the kit is very good value for money. Maybe the pump is not as good or as powerful as other products, but then its not anywhere near the price you’d pay for the other products either. For someone who is looking for something entry-level, I think this kit is ideal. It is a lot better than some of the cheap tat that’s available, but is also reasonably priced.”
-says BigBoy21 (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy?
The Tracy Cox Penis Pump can be bought from LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
3. Dr Joel Laplan 6.5 Inch Vibrating Prostate Massager
What You Get:
This uniquely designed prostate massager, with its slim body for easy insertion, and an angled tip for precision prostate stimulation, which also doubles up as a perineum massager. Ideal for newcomers and couples wishing to expand their anal play.
The Dr Joel Vibrating Prostate Massager is ergonomically designed, reaching all the correct places with just the right amount of precision vibration. This prostate massager is a welcome addition to any guy’s toy-box; whether your lover is new to the thrilling sensations of prostate massage or an expert, this is a must-try for any man, preferably used with a partner, as this toy doesn’t have a flared base to prevent any embarrassing trips to the doctor; otherwise, this toy could easily get lost…
Key Features:
- Multi-speed vibrating prostate massager
- Smooth shaft
- Easy control
- Battery-operated
- Insertable length six point-five inches
- Body-safe
- Waterproof? Yes
- Battery operated: Yes; two x AA ( Not included)
“This toy has been amazing to introduce my boyfriend into the amazing pleasures of prostate play.
The size of the product isn’t as intimidating as some others we have looked at. It packs an awesome vibrating power to reach those all important places. We look forward to progressing our collection to more advanced pieces, to extend our bum fun together! ;)”
-says FingerlickingGood“Love this!
Had a friend over and decided to try the prostate massager and it drove him wild.
The egg shape on the end made it easy to slip in and with the slight curve helps to find the prostate easy. The ability to turn the vibration up or down was fantastic.”
-says Taz890 (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy?
The Dr Joel Kaplan Prostate Massager can be bought from LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
4. Lelo Tor 2 Waterproof Vibrating Cock Ring
What You Get:
The world’s first water-proof vibrating cock-ring! The Tor design is meant to be worn during sex, and has a smooth and sexy design, which will fit all. This cock-ring guarantees stimulation for both him and her, and will prolong erections for better sex. The Tor 2 water-proof vibrating cock-ring was designed with couples in mind; it’s one-size-fits-all, which guarantees a comfortable fit, and so therefore is accommodating for both him and her. The Lelo Tor water-proof vibrating cock-ring is at the top of its game; not only can it be used to enhance sex within the bedroom it can be also be used for water-based fun too! Its attractive design makes this cock-ring a fun, functional and classy Valentine’s gift!
Key Features:
- Vibrating cock-ring
- Bullet vibrator
- Rechargeable
- Two-button control
- Six vibrational settings
- Body-safe
- Rechargeable – a two hour charge provides one-and-a-half hours of playtime.
- Waterproof? Yes
“Having not tried prostate massage/anal play before I was both a little nervous and excited at the same time, so the Lelo Billy seemed a great place to start. It didn’t seem too big and scary looking, but seemed strong and powerful at the same time.
First thing I noticed is the quality of the Lelo products, from the classy packaging to the quality and feel of the toy itself – sleek and smooth yet sturdy and well built. It has variable vibration patterns, as well as having many different intensity levels so you can get many different sensations, all controlled from an easy interface.
Insertion was surprisingly easy with a good lube (there is a small sachet of Lelo lube included) and some relaxation on my behalf. From there it was possibly the most incredible sensation I have ever felt. Once Billy hit the P-Spot it was like nothing I’ve known before. The orgasm produced from this was the most powerful and long lasting I have ever had.”
-says Bob41“We both enjoy using this during our lovemaking . It has added another dimension.”
-says Bear53 (http://www.annsummers.com)
Where to buy?
The Lelo Tor 2 can be bought from Lelo, Bondara and Ann Summers.
5. The Lovehoney Sexier Life-Starter Bundle
What You Get:
A selection of sex-toys for him and her; water-based lubricant in a satin draw-string bag at an affordable price! Highly newcomer-friendly; designed especially for adding a little spice to your love life, this selection of toys gives newcomers a variety of pleasure to explore, without being intimidating. If you wish to take a tentative step into the sex-toy world, and do not know where to start, then the Lovehoney Sexier-Life Starter Bundle does just what it says… so make this gift for Valentine’s Day the start of your new, sexier life.
Key Features:
- Ten-function Dream Bullet vibrator
- Reversible double-stroker
- Oh! Vibrating Love-ring (two-pack)
- Water-based lubricant, Enjoy!
- Spray-on toy-cleaner
- Satin tie-string bag
- Body-safe
- Three speed settings
- Battery-operated? Yes; batteries included
- Waterproof? No
“Me and my partner decided to try something new, and when we came across this pack, it was such a great buy!
We bought it while on offer, but it’s definitely worth the buy when it’s not on offer! Haven’t got a bad word to say about any item, but can definitely say we are going to keep returning to buy more sex toys that are reusable.
Also, the lube in this pack is great. First time using water-based and it’s lovely without the stickiness!”
-says GBW“I ordered this as a complete newbie to sex toys for me and my husband and we were not disappointed.
The vibrator was great for single play and also for using with my hubby.
The stroker we found a little tricky since we have never used one before, but once it was on with a bit help from the lube he said it was a great sensation and something very different.
The lube was good ,although we weren’t a fan of the smell, but it’s something we weren’t too bothered about.
The cock rings… Oh my… They gave the best orgasm and he said the vibration was great too.
The cleaning spray does what it says on the tin, and it all comes in a nice looking purple bag.
If you have any doubt like I did about buying this… don’t. It is the best choice I have made and I’m looking to buy more toys now to add to my collection.”
-says FW (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy
You can buy straight from LoveHoney.
6. Dash 10-Function Silicone Vibrating Butt-Plug
What You Get:
This ten-mode, stimulating butt-plug takes power to new levels; it will stimulate both inside and out. With a pointed head for easy insertion, the beaded shaft will stimulate you on the inside, whilst the base features varying patterns and modes for perineum pleasure that arouses further. This butt-plug has ten vibrational speed patterns, so there’s something suitable for almost everyone. The Dash Ten-Function Silicone Vibrating Butt-Plug may be intimidating for some at first glance, but with liberal amounts of water-based lubricant and its ergonomic design, it lends itself to comfortable insertion.
The Dash Ten-Function Silicone Vibrating Butt-Plug will bring a new dimension to anal play that will not fail to arouse – every time.
Key Features:
- Silicone butt-plug
- Ten vibrational patterns
- Easy insertable design
- Double base features
- Two-button control
- Twenty-eight inch cord
- Body-safe
- Firm
- Waterproof? No
- Battery-operated ? Yes; one x AA (not included)
“I really like this product. It was packaged well, made from good quality materials and the control is nicely designed and sturdy.
I’m new to anal play and wanted to expand my horizons with this toy. It’s very comfortable to insert with a little lube, it doesn’t slip out and sits comfortably inside.
The vibrations are a nice sensation. I don’t have anything to compare it to as this is my first anal vibrator.
I think it would add a nice mix to bedroom activities. I would definitely recommend this to anyone wanting to try something new.”-says Leev
“I’ve asked my OH about this one!
It’s a great toy but not for beginners!
It looks a little daunting if you’re new to the prostate game but amazing if you have a little experience. It’s not too big and it’s nice and smooth. Lovely with a bit of lube.
We used it together and wife put it in while giving me a blow job and it was incredible. Comfortable too. The vibrations feel like heaven and my wife changed the function every time she stepped the BJ up a gear.
Made the orgasm so much more powerful and my wife said she’s never seen me shoot that far ever”.
-says Suck it Sassy (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy?
The Dash is available from LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
7. Bondage Boutique Intermediate Faux-Leather Flogger
What You Get:
This nine-inch, faux-leather flogger is pocket-sized, and sturdily made; you can provide your lover with an array of sensations, from tickling and stroking, to outright flogging – and the stings which are associated with it! It’s vegan-friendly and compatible with other restraints from the Bondage Boutique. This flogger may not be ideal for a newcomer to S&M; if you have some experience, however, and you and your partner are after a flogger with a real-feel leather look without the upkeep, one that can pack a mighty whack or a sensual tickle, then look no further than the Bondage Boutique’s Faux-Leather Flogger this Valentine’s Day.
Key Features:
- Faux-leather flogger
- Nine-inch fronds
- Six-inch handle
- Easy-care
“Whip your lover into line with this faux leather flogger from Bondage Boutique. 9 inch fronds flow from a sturdy handle to deliver teasing strokes, bracing whips and a satisfying sting.”(http://sextoysutra.co.uk/shop/bondage/spankers-ticklers/bondage-boutique-intermediate-faux-leather-flogger/)
It’s not too hardcore that it really hurts, which is good. It’s very diverse as to the feel it gives when being spanked.
The material is well made and the look of the item is very naughty. We both love it!”
-says Lynzmx“This is a perfect piece of equipment for anyone who wants to explore the world of bondage but isn’t too sure whether it’s for them. The soft leather is great to the touch and the perfect size to hold, and when whipped against the skin it gives a sexual sting that leaves you begging for more.
I love my flogger and it gets things really heated between me and my partner during sex, this is a must-buy!”
-says Mr and Mrs Happy (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy?
You can buy this flogger from LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
8. Tie and Tease Sex Game
What You Get:
Open up to a new world of sensory arousal – by experimenting with this BDSM sex game for adults. You roll the dice and work around the playing board, whilst acting out varying bondage and S&M fantasies, from light spanking, to bondage. Great for anyone who feels a little reticent, but desires taking a step into the world of BDSM with their lover.
This raunchy board game is a ton of sexy fun, certain to liven up your Valentine’s Day proceedings.
Key Features:
- Tie and Tease board game
- Spanking
- Sensory deprivation
- BDSM
- Blindfold
- Ties
- One hour of play-time
“We bought this game a while back and couldn’t wait to get it out the box. The instructions are good and clear and the game is very enticing.
We have both thoroughly enjoyed playing the game. Although have never managed to complete it in an hour!. Be prepared for some good fun and frolics with this, even on the level 1 cards.
On a personal level, we find it better not to nominate Sub/Dom and to roll the included dice each go.
After a round of level 1 we move to level 2, but as yet have failed to complete the round… 😉
Its an addition to any couples sex life and will soon have you addicted for more!”
-says Stew73“We had so much fun playing out the different assignments you get on the cards.
There were lots of laughs, and it was a big turn-on to work up to the final assignment card.
There’s a lot of teasing involved during the initial cards, for instance, oral pleasure for 2 minutes. It’s a big tease when you have to stop.”
-says Conjintes (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)
Where to buy?
The Tie and Tease game is available from Bondara and LoveHoney. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
9. Clone A Willy Kit
What You Get:
The D.I.Y. Clone A Willy Kit contains a molding tube, molding powder, two-part silicone mix, a single speed battery-powered vibrator, thermometer and stirring stick; all you need to do is add water and buy some AA batteries. This Clone A Willy kit doesn’t offer too much in the way of vibratory power; but it does offer the user a choice regarding whether to create a dildo or a vibrator. There is no doubt about it – this kit is certainly messy. So, it can be tricky, but the instructions are straightforward enough, and we all have to start somewhere. The Clone A Willy kit is a certain way to add some fun into one’s love-life, creating a realistic vibrating silicone dildo. It makes an ideal gift for your lover; it can also help overcome inhibitions.
Key Features:
- Vibrating penis molding kit
- One single-set vibrator
- Silicone
- Body-safe
- Firm feel
- Waterproof? No
- Battery-Operated? Yes, one x AA (Not included)
“The Clone-a-Willy kit is really well-designed, and everything included is fabulous. The directions perfectly put, very helpful, and make a perfect mold when done correctly”.(http://sluttygirlproblems.com)
“What says “never forget me” better than a cast of your own penis that actually vibrates? Trust me that identical replica of your phallus is a gift of a lifetime!” (http://thestallionstyle.com)
Where to buy?
The Clone-A-Willy kit is available from several different places including Bondara, LoveHoney and Ann Summers. USA Customers can buy from LoveHoney USA.
10. Cock-Rub by Ann Summers
What You Get:
A cooling and tingling cream that heightens sensations and sexual contact, making masturbation more pleasurable and erotic. This cream is ideal for all, and will more likely than not lead your lover toward a very happy ending this Valentines Day.
Key Features:
- Seventy-five milli-litre bottle
- Warming cream to enhance sensitivity
- Stronger orgasms
“fantastic will use it again and again i think its the best stuff ever my girlfriend shown me how too use it she use it her self has i watch it fantastic some times when iam on my own i use it amazing would highley recomend it to all male and female happy rubing”
-says Pioneer7470“bought this one in a set of samples and it was really impressive, not only did it taste amazing, a bit like refreshers, but it really made a difference and my boyfriend really enjoyed using it.”
-says Lola26-says Amy 81 (http://www.annsummers.com)
Where to buy?
You can buy this cock rub from Ann Summers.
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