4 Kinky Ideas For Valentine’s Day!

In this hectic, modern world, wherein our lives are so busy, it is very easy to forget to take some time out for yourself – and your partner. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner – internationally celebrated on February the fourteenth – there is no better time to start making plans regarding taking a step back from the everyday stresses of work and family, and spending that special day with your lover.

Many couples will merely celebrate with a dinner, perhaps exchange gifts such as chocolates and flowers, then go home shattered… and make lacklustre, perfunctory advances at each other.

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It’s very easy to lose the magic and desire which you once shared – and before your over- priced bouquet of roses have withered, you will have spent another Valentine’s Day going through the motions; enacting the regular, cursory customs that have become associated with this day.

Valentine’s Day needn’t be spent in this traditional fashion, however; there are some very simple methods which will guarantee that you and your partner will celebrate Valentine’s Day in a way you will both remember – and all it takes is a little communication, commitment and honesty. Valentine’s Day, 2016 can be the day to celebrate your kinky side; we all have a wild side, and it’s time to unleash it – and revive and invigorate your Valentine’s Day… and your sex life!

1. Foreplay

Quality foreplay can be easily overlooked, so spending some time perfecting this vital aspect of sexual activity is the ideal, sexy way to surprise your partner come Valentine’s Day. Foreplay exhibits commitment, as you put the desires, wants and needs of your partner before your own. It can also be very erotic and kinky too, as it embraces a sense of anticipation – which will drive your partner wild. Kiss, caress, tease, lick, bite and stroke all night long, incorporating the use of massage oils and sex toys, which complement and enhance the joys of foreplay; a G-spot Stimulator, for example, is a great addition to any bedroom foreplay:

The Double Finger Banger Vibrating G-Spot Glove

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What you get:

The Vibrating G-Spot Glove is designed to give extra pleasure when inserted into the vagina and used with a ”come – hither” motion. The glove grants your fingers a texture that curves and rubs against the g-spot, enhancing the sensations achieved. There is a wrist strap attached, ensuring that the device remains secure and won’t slip off. This nifty little number can also be combined with a vibrating bullet, held in the palm of your hand, which can provide clitoral stimulation as well, enabling it to hit all the right spots.

Key Features:

  • Six inches in total length
  • One point eight-five inches in width
  • Material: TPE, ABS
  • One size fits all
  • Batteries included
  • Waterproof? No

Does Power matter?

This Vibrating G- Spot Glove gives as much power as a standard bullet vibrator which most will find sufficient for clitoral stimulation.

Battery- Operated:

Uses three tab batteries, which are included.

Newcomer Friendly?

This G-Spot vibrating glove is non-intimidating, and possesses an optional palm-held bullet vibration.

Conclusion

Comfortable fit with varying textures, for added stimulation and vibrational intensity.

“She’s never cum so many times in one month… let alone in one night! I want to keep things fresh and exciting,”
“I didn’t know for sure if she would like it or not, but the design looked like it could only improve my tactics. That’s an understatement.”
(https://www.extremerestraints.com)

“This uniquely shaped vibrating G-spot stimulator will take fingering your partner to a whole new level.”
(http://www.fetishzone.net)

Where to Buy?

The Finger Glove is available to buy from Amazon UK.


2. Restraining Your Partner

Whether you are doing the tying, or submitting to your partner’s wishes, being tied up is an activity which everyone should try, at least once in their life. You can as be creative or as kinky as you like regarding this incredibly sexy method of either losing – or gaining – control. Just as long as you make sure your partner is comfortable, and that you trust them, there is no excuse for not investigating this act come Valentine’s Day. Relax, and let your desires run away with you…

Tracey Cox Supersex Beginner’s Soft Bondage Kit

tracey cox beginners soft bondage kit
What you get:

Luxurious black velvet ties, for wrists and ankles, and a blindfold with a Velcro fastening, which is sturdy and reliable. This kit is the ideal beginner’s guide to bedroom bondage, providing you with the vital restraints in a super-soft material, which caresses the skin, making for a truly sensual bondage experience. Sheathed in classy, and discreet, packaging.

Key Features:

  • Velvet material
  • Long-tie wrist restraint
  • Long-tie ankle restraint
  • Wide blindfold

”This is an amazing first bondage kit.   The product itself is amazing quality. Love the velcro fastening. No need to learn different knots. Also had lovely padding to stop from digging in.   We got this to spice things up bit as things seemed to be turning into a routine. This did the job perfectly.
We were able to explore this new-to-us sex act, teasing and turning each other on no end. Really did turn sex amazing. So all I can say is thank you soooooo much.’
-says Glittergirl

 

‘My girlfriend and I got this as our first ever piece of bondage kit to try with and play for the first time.  As it was the first time either of us had ventured into this area, we wanted to start of easy and so thought this would be perfect. And it was!  The 4 straps all come with a loose end to tie down and the other end is the cuff.

The cuff is well made with a soft padding on it so can be done up tight but with no pain. As they are 4 separate straps, they are very versatile and you aren’t limited to just the bed with them!

A great product that has been used multiple times as really easy to use and can be mixed up a ton!”
-says AnotherGuy

 

“Being tied down is very sexy. Naughty and mysterious, not being able to move whilst someone pushes your sexual limits to the max, teasing and pleasing your whole body.

This product is fantastic for beginners to restraining, but I know the experienced wouldn’t say no to these glamorous ankle and wrist restraints. They feel amazing against the skin with their suede material, and Tracey Cox even chucked in a suede blind fold to make the experience that little bit more exciting.

The quality is fantastic as usual, and all you need to do is tie them around something, i.e. bed frame, so you can use them anywhere and everywhere you want!”

-says MrandMrsHappy (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk)

Where to Buy?

The Tracey Cox Soft Bondage Set is available from LoveHoney UK.


 

3. Erotic Massage

Why not turn your bedroom into a fantasy play room? Set the scene for your lover, then add ambiance; candles and room scents are a quick and affordable way to revamp your bedroom into a sensual sensory play-room for the evening. Send the kids to their grandparents, turn off your ‘phones and all other technology, lead your partner to the bedroom, and undress them slowly, before giving them a relaxing and sensuous erotic massage; for this, why not add a bit more kink to the mixture, and use a massage candle? A specially designed candle, which mixes oil and wax at a temperature which will remain the right side of hot, yet won’t burn, which melts once lit and can then be poured onto your partners body – before your hands take over.

Ann Summers Massage Candle

ann sumers massage candle

What you get:

A beautifully scented, body-safe candle in a ceramic holder with a specially designed spout for easy oil / wax pouring, presented in attractive packaging. The candle contains various massage oils and a delightful passion-fruit aroma.

Key Features:

  • Massage candle
  • Ceramic holder with easy-pour spout

“Its not too hot when poured onto the skin and this can be done while the candle is still lit. It left the skin feeling lovely and sort. 1 tip don’t let it cool on the skin start massaging it in straight away.”
-says Evie30
(http://www.annsummers.com)

You can buy this massage candle straight from Ann Summers.


 

4. Role-Play

frisky police sexy outfit

Why not take on new, saucy identities, and arrange to arrive at a bar separately? Dress for the part, to fully embrace the moment and role. You could even flirt with others a little before making a move towards each other – this could be a great approach towards rekindling the feelings that you first experienced regarding one another.

What You Get:

A sexy take on a classic Police Officer’s uniform, incorporating a figure-hugging dress and a full lacy skirt. PVC hat, Police badges, patches and handcuffs.

Key Features:

  • Policewoman’s uniform
  • Set of handcuffs
  • Name badge

“I bought this for my girlfriend and I was not disappointed in the least.  The dress was nice and clingy and short enough for the fishnet stockings to look super sexy under.
The hat was a bit squashed in the packet but did look good. The handcuffs were only plastic so would have broken easily, but we had some other ones!”

-says Dave 41
“Super sexy outfit and everyone loved it  So happy with outfit gonna get more more more …I felt Super Sexy in it …Fabulous Choice of outfits wow. .”
-says Sargent Frisky

The Frisky Outfit can be bought from Ann Summers.

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